Unfortunately, some people still haven’t gotten the memo about hot sauce.
Not all Black people love hot sauce, hot wings, or spicy food.
I am more concerned with YOU, than who your friends are.
After all, I am on a date with YOU, and not your friends.
It’s not that I have a problem with White people who are genuinely curious as to why it is considered inappropriate, but it’s the fact that you’re making me answer the question as if I am representative of the entire race.
The point is, stop trying to prove to me that you’re “down” with whatever.
It won’t make me think you’re cooler; it will only make me think that you’re trying too hard.
Image Source: Generally speaking, it’s not a good idea to get into a deep discussion about politics on a first date, but for some reason, White men will sometimes want to know what you think about certain popular issues concerning African Americans.
Having Black friends won’t help the situation if you have the personality of burnt toast.
i Stock For some reason, White men often feel the need to re-assure us that they love women outside of their race, but if you’re already on a date with me, isn’t obvious you like women outside of your race? There is no need to waste time re-assuring me of this.