What really hurt the most was that she used to talk to me about marrying me and having a little girl with me and I hadn't even known I wanted those things before and she left me with those desires that won't go away but she also left me with a distrust of women that also won't go away, so I am torn apart daily by mental anguish even 3 years later. My bf is american, and was laughing at my British English accent. I think it's fun to date with someone who stays in another country, and he tries to learn my language lol! I still use dating sites and if it doesn't work out, you can too. If she comes to see you and you guys somehow fall in love, she will have to go back to her country.Because we speak British english Indian accent lol! And sometimes i don't get the vocabulary, and most of the time is like i am asking, what is this? That will cause a lot of unnecessary pain, hurt and suffering.But a hot Brazilian girl, sounds like a fun hot adventure.I wouldn't expect a long term relationship though, just because of the distance.You are in a difficult situation, one which I found myself in a few years ago when I met someone from another country online. You also won't be able to have a normal dating relationship, so you'll lose points there as well.Also, you won't be there to keep an eye on her to make sure she remains faithful to you.In june of this year I was on a free webdating site and I wrote something in brief to this girl, not expecting an answer or reply back, but she did.
A 40-50 year old guy in decent shape will have no problem bedding or marrying a non-pro half his age (20-25).
From what I've seen, women are more likely to tolerate a larger (8-10 years or more) age gap once they pass their physical prime, starting usually in their late 20's.
Age gaps become a little more acceptable once the clock starts ticking.
The topic of age-differences in relationships has come up in a few different threads, but I figured it would be useful if we had one central place where we could get into more detail about the general acceptance of older male-younger female relationships and the age gaps that women are more willing to tolerate in different places.
I feel like this thread could be useful for older guys looking at specific countries, almost like a reference sheet.